By: Rick Schmitt

1) How did you find out that your child has Down’s Syndrome?

It was a surprise. We had no prior testing to check for abnormalities. 27 years ago, it wasn’t a big thing like it is now, to be honest. So, we found out at birth.

2) Did having a child with Down’s Syndrome change your perspective on parenting?

This is a great question, and I guess you could definitely say yes. There is no book on parenting, but you use natural instinct and how you were raised as starting points. But, with Down’s Syndrome, that all has to be altered, as need be. Their needs and reactions are different, so you take your core values and tweak them to their needs.

3) What local or national resources do you recommend for other parents who have a child with Down’s Syndrome?

There are many resources locally for help with development. Bornhava would be my first recommendation during the early years. These people move mountains, and they are a local blessing. People Inc. is another great establishment. Special Olympics when they reach the age to join is so great for a Down’s Syndrome or any special needs child. They need to do the same activities as other children, but in the created environment it has.

4) What advice would you give to a parent who has a child with Down’s Syndrome?

Learn that patience will be your best friend. Learn the old saying, “kill them with kindness.” They won’t like yelling nor will they respond to it. They will respond to knowing your feelings are hurt by your facial response and not your words. Know that you can and will live a normal everyday family life but it has a slight twist. It’s the best curve ball life could throw at you so grab your bat and swing for the fences!